Troubled relationship signs for couples
All’s fair in love and war.What can that saying really be saying? Are they saying there is a similarity between the two?Now it isn’t for sure that that is what they were trying to say, but there sure are a lot of things that are the same.
The similarities between the two I think are when that love becomes war. It may still be love between the two but they are at each other like it is war. I have seen this first hand doing couples therapy San Diego. A once loving couple is now fighting constantly.It is my objective to help bring peace between the two people.And reclaim that long lost loving relationship.
So what are the signs of trouble? One of the biggest warning signs is communication.Or should it be said lack of any communication.For practically all relationships, knowing how to communicate is essential. Since it is key, if as a couple you start to sense less communication that is a sign. It is a warning sign of trouble. Whether I am doing couples counseling or marriage counseling in San Diego I see it all the time. After all if you can’t communicate, every little thing can become a big problem. Proper communication helps avoid that.
So as a family counselor San Diego one of the biggest things I do is try to teach the couple how to communicate.One of the biggest secrets to effective communicating is being able to listen. People think of communication as talking to each other.But truthfully if you are unable to listen very well, you won’t really be able to understand each other. So by helping the couple listen better their communication improves greatly.
By being able to spot this sign, a couple will be able to better know that trouble may be starting.Now if the couple can spot this problem early in their relationship, they might be able to avoid some serious problems. From what I have witnessed, the optimum way to solve some problems is to completely avoid them. But if not recognized early, best way to solve them is to learn how to communicate. Sounds simple but it will have a major affect.
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