Get Your Ex Back - 5 Mistakes You Must Not Make
If you are having a hard time getting over a recent breakup. You need to avoid any of these things if you desire to get your ex back. Most people fall into the trap of doing these no-no’s and ruin any chance they have.
1 - Telling lies to others about your ex
You will ruin any chance you have of getting together again with this one. If they were spreading lies about you, how would you feel about that? I know I would be gutted. If that happened to me there’s no way I’m getting back with my ex.
2 - Making them feel jealous
This tactic can work if you know what you are doing and when to use it. But jumping straight in after a breakup and trying to make them jealous will just make them feel all the more distant from you. This can backfire big time. The jealousy you are looking for may turn to revulsion and they then know it’s over for good.
3 - The stalker
Do I really need to say anything at all about this one? I do, ok then. Best case scenario, you look like a sad desperate lonely person, they now realise breaking up was a good move. Worst case scenario you can get your self into trouble with the law, possibly even a jail sentence. Imagine what that’d do to your chances.
4 - Revenge is sweet
Revenge may be sweet but if revenge is on your mind do you really want to get them back? If you are prepared to do the dirty on them in any way at all you can’t really love them as much as you think. If you love someone you won’t hurt them, period.
5 - Pestering them with calls or texts
This is almost like electronic stalking but it’s just as serious. Calling and texting constantly can be seen as a form of mental torture. Trust me this is not how you wanna come across. They may just ignore your calls but they may take it further and change their number. Then you’ve lost them forever.
So, we now know a few things not to do if you want to get your ex back. There are many things you can do to increase your chances but alas these aren’t them
If you want my advice, use the next few weeks to take some time out and get your emotions firmly in check Get your head in shape and you have a far better chance of getting your ex back.
When I went through a breakup and wanted to get my wife back I turned to a system that was so easy to follow it was like painting by numbers, but this was getting my ex back by numbers.
Choose to get your ex back, don’t leave it to fate.
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